No Daily Mass or Adoration the week of September 18th.

From the Tee Box

A Blog by Father Trey Nelson

FOOD FOR DOGS...

Wednesday of The Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time

Then Jesus said to her in reply, "O woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish." And her daughter was healed from that hour. (From Matthew 15:21-28)

If you read the entire Gospel selection for today’s Mass, you will, no doubt, find this exchange between Jesus and the woman to seem a little odd. "It is not right to take the food of the children and throw it to the dogs," he says to her. (Mt. 15:26) It sounds as if he is actually insulting her. This, however, was no insult. This is all about persistence. Jesus playfully acknowledges in this woman, whose daughter was ill, her blind trust in his ability to help her. She was also someone frowned upon by others, even the disciples, because she was not of their faith or culture. By acknowledging her genuineness, Jesus shows them that sincerity of heart is all that is asked of us. Regardless of one’s background or personal history, Jesus welcomes and will change the hearts of anyone who sincerely desires such a change.

Personally, I am challenged by this dialogue in 2 ways. The first is a reminder to be honest with myself whenever I am tempted to judge someone else, especially by their outward appearance or background. The second is the necessity to retain the blind innocence that is required, the vulnerability that is necessary to allow Christ to genuinely and continually transform my life. If I lose this, if we lose this, then we’ve lost so much.

TEND TO YOUR OWN HOUSE...

Memorial of St. Dominic, Priest: Tuesday of The Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time

Some Pharisees and scribes came to Jesus from Jerusalem and said, "Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They do not wash their hands when they eat a meal." (From Matthew 15:1-2, 10-14)

One thing I’ve learned throughout life is, the happier I am with myself, the happier and more patient I will be with others. Whenever I catch myself in a moment of frustration or irritation with other people, or when I feel myself moving in that direction, it’s often because I’m frustrated with something about me. The older I’ve become, the more I’ve found myself letting go of the mounds of conversational garbage and the kinds of talk and conversation that serve no purpose. It never ceases to amaze me, for example, how much energy and time some people seem to place (and waste) on “other people’s business.” I see it on social media, I hear it in conversation, and I even see people making decisions based on “what they have heard” or how they perceive someone to be. This seems to me to be a waste of time and energy, and it’s destructive. It is counter-productive and counter-Gospel. In November of 2016, our Holy Father Pope Francis said in a radio address, that, “we must not be indifferent to others, but rather meet people where they are and show mercy to those in need…” (catholicnewsagency.com, Nov. 2016) I have found these words to be very helpful in evaluating my life and ministry.

In praying with today’s Gospel passage, I was immediately led to the thought, “take care of your own house, and everything else will work itself out.” This was in response to the Pharisees and scribes passing judgment on Jesus’ disciples. What part of “our house” needs tending to, so that we can not only be more compassionate toward others but be happier ourselves?

LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE...

Monday of The Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time

“…all ate and were satisfied, and they picked up the fragments left over, twelve wicker baskets full.Those who ate were about five thousand…” (From Matthew 14:13-21)

Here at Saint Jude, our school theme for this year is, “let your light shine!” Today we began the year with our annual faculty in-service Mass. It seems providential to me that the Gospel of the day is the feeding of the five thousand. In light of our theme, this passage can serve as a reminder of what we’re called to. There are different ideas about how this miracle actually happened. The literal interpretation is that Jesus actually multiplied only a few loaves of bread and fish into an amount large enough to feed everyone. Another school of thought is, that, everyone there that day shared their food with one another. Strangers sharing with strangers. Foreigners sharing with foreigners. Young with old. And so on. In order for that to have happened, walls would have needed to come down. This involved letting go. Letting go of prejudice, rumors, preconceived notions about other people, other regions, and other cultures. I am quite sure that sharing gave rise to sharing.

As we begin another year, I can’t think of a better virtue and way of life to which we can all recommit ourselves. If we want others to feel free enough to let their light shine, then we can help make that happen. By further acceptance, compassion, stretching and being willing to go places we may have never gone before, we can give others the freedom to be themselves and shine.

Regardless of how the miracle happened that day long ago on the mountain, the point is, that, it happened. It can happen for us too, if we’re willing to go one step further in letting go of what separates us.